Every single day, people all around the world get divorced or visit a psychologist to recover after a hard break up.
Why is it like this? Why is it so difficult to keep a relationship strong and healthy?
Why do we fail at love so often, despite trying so hard? Let’s look at 11 important reasons.
– When some troubles or changes occur, we don’t want to compromise with our beloveds and spend time on restoring relationships. We simply give up and start looking for an easier option.
– Next time, choose a person who tries to listen to you rather than one who is just good company for having fun.
– We are too busy with our daily routine and careers, so we don’t have time for developing relationships. As a result, our relationships wither without our attention just like flowers wither without water.
– Most people today think that there’s nothing in this life that’s worth their time and patience, even love. It seems we’ve forgotten that the best thing takes time.
– We don’t give the best of us to a person, but we want him or her to be perfect. We date lots of people, but hardly give a chance to anyone.
– We don’t have to spend time together anymore. We already know a lot about each other from social media. We have nothing to talk about.
– We actually despise permanence. We are always in pursuit of something better and new, and we don’t even notice that we already have everything we need.
– Sex without a relationship is a norm these days.
– We weigh every single step and prefer listening to our brains rather than our hearts.
– We build walls around ourselves, and sometimes they’re too thick and high to let us step out and see life as it really is.
– We don’t appreciate people around us and don’t want to make any efforts to keep them close to us. We are too lazy and too busy to make the first step.
